Showing posts with label parenting problem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting problem. Show all posts

Monday 13 May 2013

parenting tips

Ten Keys to Positive Parenting

1. Communication
 Have good communication. This requires the active listening and responding of at least two people. Take time to hear what each other is saying.Have good communication. This requires the active listening and responding of at least two people. Take time to hear what each other is saying.

2. Be Supportive 
Show support in a child’s hobbies and interests. Spend time with them on hobbies and encourage exploring their interests.









3. Set Rules 
Have household rules. Make sure the rules are clear for every member of the family. Apart from being clear, see that they follow the rules.




4. Correct your Child 
Teach the difference between right and wrong. When a mistake is made, correct the child, but do not overreact.  Praise freely whenever good is seen.









5. Appreciation
Appreciate the value of play. It is a child’s work. Playing with a child will give a parent a chance to prevent some discipline problems and make it easier (and funnier) for children to learn.



6.Have Family Get Together 
Arrange time for family activities. Children need to have some special time with parents. When there is more than one child in the house, make time for each child individually. Try to make these times special.





7.Healthy Food 
Build a healthy body and brain. Provide healthy food and plenty of water. Avoid junk food. Get active as much as possible. Turn off the television and video games and get outside.






8.Never embarrass your child
Don’t embarrass your child. If you embarrass your child especially in front of others, it will hinder future open talks.












9.Be a Good Listener  
 You need to learn how to listen carefully, not just to the words but the heart. Listening attentively is the key to healthy communication. You can listen actively.  Repeat what the child has said to avoid misunderstanding.








10.Show Interest 
Show a genuine interest in your child and his activities. This would help your child learn to express how he feels. Pay attention when your child talks. Good communication brings mutual understanding.







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Saturday 27 April 2013

How to deal with lying child and teenagers



There may be many reasons why your teen is lying and you need to know the real reason behind the lie. The reason may be wrong crowd or defensive nature. You have to work on the real reason so that you can manage his lying behavior. There may be any reason behind the lying attitude but you may have to face serious consequences because of this attitude. Here is a list of facts that can teach you how to deal with lying teenagers.


First of all you should accept that your teen will lie. This understanding makes the things easy for you and you can confidently deal with your teen. Your objective behavior makes you more aware and you can easily identify when your teen is lying.
  • Lying attitude is most commonly associated with defensive nature. If your child becomes defensive during communication then he is lying with you. 
  • Maintain an eye contact with your teen for checking his confidence. If he is telling lie then he looks in other directions and avoids eye contact with you. They usually shout for convincing you that they are telling truth.
  • Body language and details also reflects the attitude of the lying teenagers.  Teens normally avoid giving details when they are lying or they unnecessarily give you explanation for unwanted things. Their story normally changes every time when you ask them to repeat it again. He also becomes nervous when he is telling lie.

  • If it is suspected that your kid is lying then you should give immediate attention for avoiding the worst situation in the future. Make them realize that you trust them and their lie is making the relationship weaker among them. You should not become rude when your teen is telling lie. In fact handle the situation with love and great care. Your rude behavior can encourage him for telling more lies in the future.

  • Parents should also teach their teens the meaning of a true and respectful relationship. Parents should also be honest for their teens because children learn a lot from their parents. You can easily make the situation under control if you take hand to take action at that time. Parents should also know how to deal with this tough situation. Your immediate attention can make the situation under control soon and child also tries to give his best for meeting the expectation of the parents.

  • You should not jump immediately that your teen is telling lie every time. Analyze the situation carefully and try to understand it deeply. When you are sure about the fact that your teen is telling lie only then you should take some action.

  • One you are sure about the reason why teen is telling lie then you should work on the cause so that lying attitude can be avoided in future.






    If any parents see near to all problem in his child then they must think to consult a child psychologist for the proper evaluation and management.


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